Nia's birthday - #14

Nia turned 14. Her birthday was less than a month ago, so there is some chance we actually have a memory of some things! One of the nice things about giving Nia presents is that she gives BIG reactions of joy and surprise about every one. It's very fun.

Nia asked for a treasure hunt. We hid half her presents to find the day before and half to find the day after. We had couplet clues for most of them.

Nia: This is one of my plainest cakes in years.

She normally decorates her own cakes, but this year she just let Mom frost it and call it good. Mom made three different cakes in cupcake form for her to testtaste. Many of those were given as gifts to people at church.

Easily her favorite gift at the moment was a package of pen-swords. Swords of all varieties, hammers, maces. Very fun.

Nia: It's COOL!

The standing joke has been: "Which is mightier: the pen or the sword? You don't need to pick!"

She got a set of miniature Harry Potter cross stitch projects and made the Hogwarts emblem straight off. For those folks who seem to want to examine the back of a cross-stitch project more than the front, here are both. She did a great job! This was her second cross-stitch project ever.

Nia: Grandma gave me new shoes. I enjoyed them.

She's had one of three friends over for afternoon tea so far. More celebrations to come.

JT's Birthday - #11

John-Thomas turned 11 years old in April. You can tell from the pictures, he is still in his "gorfy" picture phase.

Joy: We did an extra-long tennis time with his friend B____.

JT: It was really great. I liked the feeling of almost one year until I'm a deacon!

Nia: It happened. There was chaos. It was fun.

We had pies instead of cake for his birthday. That was enjoyable!

These pictures are technically part of our Easter celebration, but JT loved playing dreidel (out of season). He won! My new name is Joshua, the son of Nun because I kept rolling Nun.

Hyrum's Birthday - #17

Hyrum turned 17 this year.  These next few posts are mostly about saving some pictures.

We went to Pastafina in Weatherford. We wanted to do bowling, but the bowling arcade was packed for the next 2-3 hours and it was raining. We found another bowling place in Granbury to go instead.

He had friends over, as usual. Three cheers for Austin, who has come to each celebration for years.

Hy: We played soccer and ping pong.

Our ping pong table from last year died the death about a month ago. The remaining pieces were sitting against the wall, waiting for me to repair them or give them last rites. I tried. I did. Nothing helped. Then my parents sent us a portable ping-pong table and we were much more at peace saying goodbye to the old one. The new one is small, but has been loved.

A lot of Hyrum's birthday was preparing him for winter at BYU: suitcases, gloves, coats....

Happy Birthday, Mr. Tennis.

I'm glad you won...

When my father was a lad, he played games with his mother, like Scrabble. (John-Thomas says, "They had Scrabble back then?") She won. She won a lot. She taught my little father to say, "I'm glad you won. I'm sorry I lost. Maybe I'll do better next time."

Eventually, he "got gud" and he won. He won a lot. He taught his mother to say, "I'm glad you won. I'm sorry I lost. Maybe I'll do better next time." And then she made him clean up the game because he won.

In our modern day, Hyrum wins a lot of games. And I try to allow him the privilege of putting the game away. I explained to the children today why I do that and retaught them the mantra: "I'm glad you won. I'm sorry I lost. Maybe I'll do better next time."

JT - who is a good sport about coming in last many times - says, "I'm glad I won. I'm sorry you scored any points at all. Maybe you'll get negative next time." And he smiles and giggles.

Happy 4th of July!

We enjoyed watching 1776 as we do each year. Nia made a turkey, and it was one of the best we've had. We had the missionaries over as well who encouraged us to consider all we are grateful for, including our country. I enjoyed much less physical pain than I have had in a week.

To end the evening, we left dear America and went to medieval England for A Man For All Seasons. It tells the story of Thomas More, who is portrayed as one of the last honest men in a corrupt, power-hungry government. He refused to sign a loyalty oath, admitting the Pope had no authority to let King Henry VIII marry his brother's widow and therefore he was free to marry Anne Bolyn. He did not speak against the king either, so it took years in prison before someone came forward with false testimony to support his execution. There are any number of outstanding quotes from that film, courtesy of imdb:

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Thomas: Some men think the earth is round, others think it flat. It is a matter capable of question. But if it is flat, will the King's command make it round? And if it is round, will the King's command flatten it?

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• William Roper: So, now you give the Devil the benefit of law!
• Sir Thomas More: Yes! What would you do? Cut a great road through the law to get after the Devil?
• William Roper: Yes, I'd cut down every law in England to do that!
• Sir Thomas More: Oh? And when the last law was down, and the Devil turned 'round on you, where would you hide, Roper, the laws all being flat? This country is planted thick with laws, from coast to coast, Man's laws, not God's! And if you cut them down, and you're just the man to do it, do you really think you could stand upright in the winds that would blow then? Yes, I'd give the Devil benefit of law, for my own safety's sake!

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• The Duke of Norfolk: Oh confound all this. I'm not a scholar, I don't know whether the marriage was lawful or not but ***, Thomas, look at these names! Why can't you do as I did and come with us, for fellowship!
• Sir Thomas More: And when we die, and you are sent to heaven for doing your conscience, and I am sent to hell for not doing mine, will you come with me, for fellowship?

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Sir Thomas: I think that when statesmen forsake their own private conscience for the sake of their public duties, they lead their country by a short route to chaos.

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And let's end this post with a quote or two from John Adams, celebrating both men's commitment and integrity:

John: There are only two creatures of value on the face of the earth: those with the commitment, and those who require the commitment of others.

John: Our constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.

Courtesy of ChatGPT

Fossil Rim

Most summers we like to get season tickets for somewhere interesting and really enjoy it. One year (21-22) we did Fossil Rim, the safari park near Glen Rose, TX. We visited often and enjoyed each trip, but one thing we never seemed to manage was to get there first thing in the morning. This year, someone - I think it was the alumni association - paid for all faculty and staff at Tarleton to get free access for a couple weeks. So shortly before graduations, we drove down and really enjoyed seeing much more active animals than we would find in the mid- or late-afternoon in the Texas heat. (Go figure!)

One of our best encounters was the first and also the last. An ostrich came over, feeling very aggressive, to demand our food pellets. It attacked Joy through the window and tried to eat the toy giraffe hanging there by its neck. Joy tried to protect herself ... using the bag of food pellets! She quickly realized how counterproductive that was and closed the window. When we left the park again, the ostrich came to dance for us and snuggle with the van. 

Joy: I think the ostrich was trying to open the window so it could get to me.

Joy: Everyone that wanted to had personal encounters with the giraffe.

D: Often there is a long line of cars for the giraffes. They are quite adept at welcoming themselves inside in a gentle, non-threatening way (unlike the ostrich!) It was nice to have this one to ourselves for a while.

Turns out, 2021-22 when we had season passes was the last time we went to Fossil Rim. Joy took the kids to Fossil Rim a number of times while I had to work. Given that I wasn't blogging that year, here are some pictures from a couple of those trips too, below the fold: