Friday, February 15, 2019

Missionaries can call home on PDay

When I was on my mission in Germany, I wrote to my parents every week and called them at Mother's Day and Christmas. That's what was allowed. More recently, missionaries were given permission to email instead of write letters. That was great. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has announced that missionaries may now text, call home, and/or video chat weekly during their off days, plus on special occasions like Father's Day or birthdays.

As I read that, I remembered fondly a panic I gave my parents. I was sick (again!) and the doctor said he needed to have me checked for Tuberculosis because nothing else seemed to fit. I wrote my parents about that, then a few days later got tested. My tests were just fine - no problems at all - so I forgot about it.

My parents got my letter about TB and started worrying.
A week later, no letter showed up. I had sent it, but mail sometimes doesn't arrive on time. They wrote me and asked me for confirmation that everything was okay.
Two weeks later, no letter showed up from me, and I didn't one from them either. They wrote me again, frantic.
Three weeks later I got both of their letters and wrote them right away. My weekly letters finally showed up, which reassured them I WAS STILL ALIVE but didn't tell them anything about the TB because I hadn't known they were worried yet when I sent those.
A solid month of worry later they finally got a letter from me reassuring them I was okay. I'm not 100% certain, but I feel like they may have called my mission president at some point to hear I was okay, and Pres. Schubert kindly asked me to write my parents and let them know everything was okay. I reassured him that I already had.

On my mission in Neubrandenburg,
recording a radio program about Jesus.
Now, yes, email would have solved most of that. But a quick text would've saved them a lot of grief even faster!

I think about what a relief it would have been to have been able to chat with them while I was in the hospital - once getting nails put in my arm when I broke my arm on black ice, the other time getting the nails taken out.

So glad this is happening!

Thursday, February 14, 2019

365 - Duolingo

Yesterday I scored a 365 day streak on Duolingo. Duolingo is an app that helps you learn different languages. As you complete lessons, you score experience points (xp) to keep track of how far you are, and if you meet your daily xp goal it adds to your streak*. I'm a real fan!

I've been using it to:
refresh my German (21,328 xp)
learn Spanish (17542 xp) and Chinese (6918)
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Duo, himself
and putter around in Portuguese (2089) and French (1526).

The German lessons have mostly succeeded in reminding me of which gender various nouns are and added some words and phrases that a missionary rarely needs to use, like business terms for handling accounts.

Before trying Spanish on Duolingo I had read the Book of Mormon in Spanish twice. The app has been VERY helpful in filling in a lot of gaps and making me very confident in my ability to read Spanish. Hearing it or having conversations with native speakers? Still not so much. I can follow along a Spanish church lesson or talk as long as I already know what they're talking about and it makes a lot of sense, but if anyone starts telling a story about something that happened to them I don't already know, I get completely lost.

Joy has joined me in working on Chinese. The other day she listened to a sentence in Chinese and asked if I could translate it. I could tell it was in the lesson on nationalities, but I couldn't figure out what country they were saying. I admitted that and asked, "So what country IS he from?" And that was correct: What country is he from? *LOL* I was able to say a few phrases to a transfer student successfully. That was nice. My favorite sentence is "Teacher please help my younger brother," because with Chinese tones it sounded like a perfect background for a techno song. I'll mutter that phrase over and over, banging out a beat with my dry erase markers or what have you just having fun.

They recently added a competition, where you are paired with 49 others who are active this week. At the end of the week they total your xp for that week. The top 10 of you go up a level, the bottom 5 go down a level, and everyone else stays where you are. After a few attempts, I've made it to level 4/5, where I hope to stay for the foreseeable future.

Monday, February 4, 2019

5000

As newlyweds, I told Joy I wanted to celebrate every day of our marriage. We kept count of every single one of them on our calendar and reminded each other of how many days we had been married. Then it was every 10 days. Then every 25. Or 100.

Well, it's TIME for a milestone. Joy and I have officially been married for 5,000 days (that's slightly over 13 and 2/3 years).

You found what???
To celebrate, I picked up some flowers after dropping Superstar off at school, and surprised Joy with ... a new, unopened board game of ... WIZARDS!

Wizards came out in 1982 and was one of my favorite board games growing up. The players apprentice themselves to wizards, druids, or sorcerers and go around doing good deeds to thwart evil and eventually gain enough trust of the various factions to unite the holy crystals, unmask the (random) ancient wizard who has turned to evil, and Save the World before it Falls into Darkness. It's complex, high replayability, epic fantasy with magic and elves and unicorns against demons and dragons and all that good stuff.

I can't believe it!
Shortly after my brother and I got married, we had a conversation about who would inherit a few things we were both interested in and we agreed that he would get Wizards while I got Advanced Civilization. After the conversation, Joy told me she was sad about that decision, so I have had it in my heart for a dozen years to find our own copy. Well, ebay came through!

Happy 5000 Days of Happily Ever After!
And since we were sealed in the San Diego Temple approximately just about ... NOW, that means we have also been married for 120,000 hours, 7.2 million minutes, and at some point today 432 million seconds.
10-13 years ago




















(For anyone vaguely curious, we will hit 6000 days on Halloween, 2021. See you then!)

Saturday, February 2, 2019

Warning: Cute children at large




Princess had a wonderful school picture.











Princess was eager to get ready for Christmas, so she dressed up as Mary.


The kids keep getting bigger, especially JT who has grown out of three Sunday outfits in three months.  But that means lots of pictures of the little guy looking sharp!